True love; Can a man truly love a woman?

Love is something many people talk about it, but when it comes to true love, a debate sets in. Many people confuse true love, infatuation, lust and friendship. I have seen so many friends crossing the lines and end up having sex with their so called friends. However, though many people talk about true love, very few have tested it, Men have been caught on so many occasions cheating on their wives yet they seemed to be faithful, some people think that is hard for a man to love one wife (call it true love) where as many others think it possible to have true love. The problem is that movies and soaps have mislead so many about true love, we have seen in many soaps where people get married to those they do not have "true love" and they have to separate on order top marry their true loves, for me, I call that stupid love. True love just grows, we do not fall in it and if a man gives himself time to grow in love, he can end up loving only woman, the problem is that even the women also sometimes make it hard for men to grow in love with them when they begin they traits of over quarrelling and lack of respect which turn off the man. But i am one of those people who believe that true love exists though many who say they have it are pure liars. I know it exists but for true love to work out, both partners must understand each other which is not so common. Many good guys end up in love with the bad girls and even though the guy will have true love, it may not grow if the girl does not love in the same way.